Tuesday, November 24, 2009
One fell off and bumped his head...
He wasn't even supposed to be in their room -- Jack was in time-out, and the door was locked from the outside, but Thomas snuck in there while I was fixing dinner to visit the imprisoned. And then I heard a terrible crash, Jack shouted out that Thomas had fallen, and I rushed in there to see Thomas crying hard on the floor.
My first thought was "no more broken bones, please!", so I checked over his arms and legs, but they seemed OK. Thankfully, no protruding bones or obvious deformations. He was understandably scared by the fall, but it was hard to tell how hurt he really was. At first he said his knee hurt, and then he said his head hurt. I had him lie down on the couch so he could calm down and I could figure out if anything was really hurt. But as soon as I put him on the couch, he got pale, confused, his skin got clammy, and he started trying to fall asleep. Ack!! I kept thinking "concussion!".
Thankfully, David basically walked in the door from work at this point, so he took charge of Jack and Peter while I whisked Thomas off to the ER.
On the way to the ER, Thomas perked up considerably and was his usual chatty self, and he said he wasn't tired anymore. I thought about turning around and coming home, but I was still worried, and I didn't want to ignore a possible head injury, so I went ahead and took him into the packed ER and signed in.
We waited maybe an hour, until close to 7PM, but it became obvious that we would be waiting there for a long, long time. There were people that had been waiting for 5 hours and still hadn't been seen (and these people looked a lot sicker than Thomas, who at that point was totally himself again).
So, I decided to sign us out and come home. The nurse said to bring him back if he started vomiting or crying uncontrollably, but agreed that we were wise to go home and get some sleep. Thomas had a late dinner and got to go to bed later than his brothers (he enjoyed that privilege!), and we checked on him later that night and he seemed fine. Today, he is completely normal -- no bumps or bruises even, and he says everything feels fine!
All I can say is ... thank God for guardian angels -- he must have had his, and maybe he borrowed his brothers' for a minute, too -- helping him land him safely on the floor. That top bunk is close to 6 feet high, and he *jumped* off of it, so I can only imagine how much worse things could have been.
So, Thomas is banned from the top bunk for quite a while (at least a year), and if we need to remove the ladder during the day to keep him off of it, then we will
No more Thomases jumping on the bed!! :)
Friday, November 20, 2009
More walking!
Peter felt pretty confident last night and was walking around without a "cane" or anything. He was very proud of himself! And it was cool to listen to Jack and Thomas cheering him on, too.
This morning, I went to a Mom's club meeting at the Catholic church closest to us. They had free babysitting for the kids, so I was able to sit in a room full of other Catholic moms, drink coffee, and listen to a couple of guest speakers. It was really nice! They do it once a month, which I think is just right for me. The boys did pretty well for the sitters, except that Peter missed me and was crying/calling "Mama" a lot.
In other news, Thomas has pretty much given up his afternoon nap completely. We had a good long run -- about 3.5 years -- so I really can't complain, but he gets a little crabby without that extra sleep, so that's a little difficult. So far, he learned the art of "quiet time" yet, and after about 10 minutes in his room he starts pounding on the door and asking loudly "Can I come out now?!?", over and over again. It's a little unnerving when I'm trying to get some quiet time!
Jack's schoolwork is going a little better this week. I think I need to adjust my expectations a little -- I can't expect to have a classroom experience re-created in my home, so I need to be more flexible in how I teach Jack what he needs to know, and try to take advantage of the many learning opportunities we have everyday. And also make sure it's fun and not drudgery for him (or me!).
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Walking isn't so hard...
(don't worry about Jack in that second video -- he's not going into anaphlyaxis, he's just being dramatic :) ).
Peter's broken ankle definitely slowed him down in the walking department. He hasn't really had a desire to take steps on his own since before he broke it, but just over the last couple of days he seems more ready to try, and I'm sure his "cane" helped :).
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Some random observations...
-- Dressing a wriggly 17-month old who really doesn't want to be dressed is a lot like dressing a cat in doll's clothes. And yes, I would know about that (right, Wheetah? ;) ).
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Old Fort Niagara
The fort was built in 1726 by the French, then it was taken by the British, who gave it to America after the Revolution, then it was recaptured by the British in the War of 1812, and then the British gave it back to America at the end of that war.
The buildings have been restored, and the largest building is a really neat castle. There are also lots of cannons everywhere that the boys got to see and touch. And there was even a musket-firing demonstration, which was cool, but it sent Thomas into a fit of tears because it was a bit loud.
It was a beautiful day to be out -- it was sunny and clear, but fairly crisp. The grounds were so well manicured, and it was amazing to see just how big Lake Ontario is. If we looked close, we could even see Toronto across it on the horizon!
Here are some photos of our adventure:
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Beaver(less) Meadow
When we arrived, I asked if we would be able to see the beavers, but the information desk lady told us that they left 3 years ago! Their dam and resulting beaver pond are still there, but the dam is leaking and eventually the pond will drain and will become a running stream again. So, we were a little disappointed about not seeing real beavers, but the preserve was beautiful and we got to walk out on top of the dam, which was neat. There was a visitor's center, and inside there was a discovery center with lots of nature-related stuff for kids to play with. The boys enjoyed that, and Peter was both horrified and highly entertained by the beaver puppets!
So, our outing wasn't exactly what we hoped it would be, but it was enjoyable all the same.
In kid news this past week, Jack tied his shoe by himself for the first time! It's been a struggle to get him willing to learn, but he knows how to do it and now he just needs more practice. It was pretty neat watching him do it all by himself for the first time! His schoolwork is going pretty well, minus some "I don't want to" moments and some craziness from Thomas and Peter. It's been more difficult for me than I expected trying to organize my weekly routine and get everything done that I'd like, but hopefully I'll get in a good rhythm in the weeks to come.
Thomas has been upping the sassiness level a bit, which is expected considering his being 3, but it's a little trying on the patience! He's been coming up with a lot of interesting questions, and he isn't satisfied until he gets and answer and understands it completely (and even then he might ask again just because). He's especially interested in Jesus, heaven, and all things religious -- I like to think of him as a little philosopher :).
Jack and Thomas have been playing pretty well together, but sometimes they resort to calling each other names. Quite a while ago they were calling each other "stupid", which I put an end to, but the other day I overheard what they thought was a sneaky insult -- they were calling each other "steward"! I think I deflated it pretty well when I informed them that being a steward is actually a good thing :).
In Peter news, his ankle seems to be feeling pretty well. He's cruising around on it, but hasn't really tried walking by himself yet. He has developed a very loud streak, and just learned the word "Miiiine!" at top volume. He's also learned "cracker", "waw" (for water), and a very loud, long
Maaaaammmmy!" for "Mommy". He is a funny, feisty little guy, and I'm thoroughly enjoying his baby antics and sense of humor!
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Halloween roundup
We decided to trick-or-treat at a few apartments in our complex, but the weather became terribly cold and rainy right as we walked out the door, and on top of that, no one answered their doors! Ah well -- we decided that next year (wherever we are) we'll make a point of trick-or-treating at houses that are well decorated for Halloween --that should increase our success!
Yesterday, Peter got his cast off and we're all grateful for that! He had a long soak in the tub, took a good nap, and was literally bouncing around when he got up. He was spinning donuts on the floor, bouncing on the couch, he was so thrilled to be out of that cast! The doctor said he probably won't put any weight on that ankle for a little while, but so far he seems to be treating it normally. In two months they want to X-ray it to make sure it has finished healing correctly, but other than that he's good to go.
Today, we had a playdate with one of Kim's friends from college who now lives in the Buffalo area. It was such a treat! They have 2 little boys and a lovely, huge old farmhouse complete with chickens and lots of land. They also know of other young Catholic families in the area and offered to let us know about any group events that might be going on. I'm excited about that possibility!