I am trying to encourage the boys to tread softly around our rental home lately. Maybe it's because we have spent more time indoors, or maybe it's because I am weary of living in rental homes for the past 4+ years, but I am tired of finding all the little (and not so little) dings and dents that 4 boys can visit upon a household. We haven't (yet) had crayons or markers on the walls, but we have had a 2 year old that bit some pieces out of the mini blinds in his room (who does that?!?), some doors that have been flung open and dented the wall behind, various carpet messes (I love Goo Gone!), lots of handprints along walls and stairs, nicks in hardwood flooring from dropped plastic toys, and my own contributions when I accidentally scratch the vinyl floor, etc. The list goes on! I know it's all within the realm of normal for life with 5 kids, but it just feels like our household is hard on furniture and walls and floors and everything! I would feel better if it were our own things that we're denting, but when it's someone else's home, I feel bad, try my best to repair what I can, and try not to be too anxious about it and about whether or not we'll see all of our security deposit again.
David is working a lot lately, and recently acquired a work laptop which lets him work from home, which is a mixed blessing. I am glad he can be home for dinner and then work late here rather than at the office working late, though. There may or may not be a location change in our future, so we are chugging along and waiting to hear more.
Lent starts next week and I am excited (and a little nervous!). We are planning to go vegetarian as a family, which will be a good sacrifice. I will have to steel myself against the stink eyes that the kids give me, and to remind them of their good manners, but it will be a good challenge for us all to eat better and to be grateful for what we have. We hope to save a little money in our food budget (although fruits and veggies aren't cheap, either) and maybe donate it. I am also planning to encourage the kids to live the Beatitudes during Lent, so I need to come up with a good way to highlight them (maybe focus on 1-2 per week?). I am also planning to do a couple of hobby type projects during Lent that will be good for me and my work-life balance, and might just yield some nice end products. I am also planning to simplify our belongings, and I think I will start with my maternity clothes and baby boy clothes. We may be blessed with more children in the future, but until/if that ever happens, I can share whatever maternity clothes I have that are still in good shape, and whatever baby clothes have survived 4 boys!
